How to Officiate a Wedding in Kansas

As a Minister of the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster

Pastafarian minister officiating a wedding

The Short Version

There are two things: the wedding ceremony, and the legal marriage. One is a ceremonial ritual, a performance, and the other is paperwork. You’re leading the ceremony. You may also assist the clerk with the marriage paperwork in some places. In Kansas?

Kansas is a straightforward state to officiate a wedding. You perform the wedding ceremony, and if you choose to assist with the marriage paperwork too, it’s a clean process here.

You Can Do This

The couple asked you because they want you standing up there — not a stranger, not a professional, you. That means something. Here’s what you need to know:

It’s not as scary as you think. Most ceremonies are 5–15 minutes. The couple does most of the talking (vows, “I do”). You’re the guide.

At a minimum, your ceremony needs two elements: 1. Declaration of Intent — “Do you take this person…” / “I do” 2. Pronouncement — You declare them married

Everything else — readings, vows, stories, jokes, Pastafarian blessings, the whole production — is optional and up to you and the couple.

FSM Ordination Package

The Ordination Package — $79

  • Paper Certificate of Ordination
  • Black/Silver Resin Wallet Card
  • Two Vinyl Car Decals
  • Digital credentials (PDF) delivered same-day
  • Free shipping worldwide

Get Ordained →

Preparing for the Ceremony

  1. Get ordained — Get ordained with the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Takes a few minutes. The digital credentials come within hours, and the physical package ships in a few days.
  2. Talk to the couple — What kind of ceremony do they want? Religious? Secular? Funny? Short? This is their day — find out what matters to them.
  3. Write your script — Include the Declaration of Intent and the Pronouncement. Fill in the rest with whatever feels right — personal stories, readings, vows, humor.
  4. Practice — Read it out loud at least twice. Time it. Speak slowly — you’ll talk faster on the day.

Ceremony Day

  • Bring: Your script (printed), your ordination credentials (just in case), and a black pen
  • The ceremony: Walk through your script. Declaration of Intent → Pronouncement → done. Everything else is gravy.
  • On the license: Mark the ceremony type as “Religious” even if your ceremony isn’t particularly religious. “Civil” is reserved for government officials. Just a bureaucratic checkbox.
  • Relax. You’ve prepared. The couple picked you. Enjoy it.

If You’re Also Handling the Paperwork

Good news — Kansas recognizes FSM ministers, no registration required. Bring your proof of ordination — some counties may ask to see it.

Statute: Kansas Statutes Annotated § 23-2504 — currently ordained clergy or religious authorities can solemnize marriages.

Can an FSM Minister Handle the Paperwork?

Detail Info
Can officiant sign the license? Yes
Registration required? No (bring proof of ordination)
Marriage license cost $85.50
Waiting period 3 days (judge can waive)
License valid for 6 months
Return deadline 10 days after ceremony
Witnesses needed 2 adults (18+)

Before the Wedding

  • Call the local County Clerk — Tell them you’re an ordained minister performing a wedding. Ask what they need from you. They do this every day and they’re almost always helpful.
  • The couple gets their marriage license — They apply at their County Clerk’s office. Both parties appear with valid photo ID. There’s a 3-day waiting period (a judge can waive it). Valid for 6 months.

Pro tip: Kansas also allows self-uniting marriages per religious customs — no officiant needed. But if the couple wants you up there, you’re good to go.

Right After the Ceremony

Sign the marriage license — you, the couple, and 2 witnesses (18+). Black pen. Do this immediately after the ceremony — don’t wait.

After the Wedding

Return the signed license to the County Clerk within 10 days. Mail it or drop it off. Set a phone reminder right after the ceremony. This is the most important post-ceremony task.

Kansas Tips

  • No registration required — bring your ordination credentials
  • Some counties may ask for proof of ordination, so have it handy
  • 3-day waiting period — remind the couple to plan ahead
  • 6-month license validity gives plenty of planning room
  • Performing a ceremony without authorization is a misdemeanor ($100 fine) — so get ordained first!

County-Specific Info

  • Johnson County — serving Overland Park, Olathe, Shawnee, Lenexa…

Questions?

Contact us. And the #1 rule: talk to your local County Clerk before the ceremony. They do this every day. They’ll tell you exactly what you need.

This page is a helpful guide, not legal advice. Laws change. Always verify current requirements with your local County Clerk.